Friday, December 23, 2011

Christmas Eve, Eve!

It's Christmas Eve, Eve! Around here that means last minute... everything. We are frantically shopping for ingredients for our Christmas dinner menu. Last minute chores are done. We enjoy family Christmas nostalgia though video. We pack for the trip to Grandma's house. Through all the hustle and bustle, my personal favorite is Christmas music.
This is my favorite time of the year... So I join in our great family tradition Christmas Eve, Eve.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Funny Kids

I've shared on a previous post that one of our family's greatest joys is to sit and read to each other. The other day my youngest picked up the book I was reading on my nook, The Legend of Sleepy Hollow. She started reading it to me with her British accent. I told her the story was set in New York. Without missing a beat she continued reading in her best New Jersey accent. I laughed a long time with her, it was priceless.

Where does that spontaneity come from? Maybe it comes from a love for good characters, or maybe it's just the magic of story time. Both of my kids also read a lot and listen to audio books too. They also re-read their favorites. I hardly ever do that. As I sit here I think of how blessed I am as a father to have a house full of eager readers.

I think our reading to each other nurtures the love and affection we share for one another. It's nothing new, but it is magical. I look forward to the next reading with my funny kids.

Friday, November 11, 2011

11/11/11

Veterans Day salute... As a father of two bright and beautiful kids I want to say thanks to our veterans for standing in the gap for me, my family and my friends. I also pledge to teach my children what this day is about just as you have pledged to support and defend The Constitution of the United States. Thank you.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Time Well Spent

Reading is one of my favorite pastimes. Dusting off an old favorite like Canvas Falcons by Stephen Longstreet about WWI aviators. Or, an Edmund Morris tome on some powerful figure in history. Or passages from Shelby Foote's Civil War narrative history vols. 1 and 2. Looking at this list I guess I read a lot of biographies and histories. History is a comfort to me and I guess I enjoy the company of that genre's characters.

However, my children have decided I do not read enough fiction. My oldest thinks it's an abomination I have not read Harry Potter. So she proceeded to read them to me. Wonderful, delightful, funny, engaging, my daughter is. She has an encyclopedic knowledge of each character, and narrates the story with flare. Of course J.K. Rowling has done a nice job writing as well. The point is my daughter and I have spent hours together laughing and screaming and just enjoying good company with a book, even a book I would probably never pick up on my own. By the way we are on book seven, don't spoil the ending!

I've noticed too that just as my children's personalities are different their taste in stories are different as well. My youngest is not very into H.P. short of watching the movies. That's not to say she doesn't read she does a lot. She reads more than I do and remembers the storylines better than I do too. Currently we are reading Paint the Wind by Pam Munoz Ryan. It happens to be her favorite book. And yes, We've read the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. If you don't know what to read with your child start with Jeff Kinney. He's fun and offbeat and short, so he'll leave you wanting more. Especially if your kid reads it to you.

So, there you go, a snapshot of parent child one-on-one relationship building made easy. I'm not saying throw the T.V. out or post your video games on eBay. I'm just saying a good book with the kids is time well spent too.